Be Contrary

Never should any of us be silent spectators of unfairness, chosen ignorance, and cruelty.  For if good men and women do nothing tis evil enough.  Our graves will allow us all the time in the world for silence, while we live we should always dare to question and challenge not only others but ourselves when behaviour is unwarranted or foolish.

Constructive criticism is your friend

"The millennial generation does not like being wrong.  They are unaccustomed to it.  Their education – a unique blend of No Child Left behind, helicopter parenting, and oppression olympics, has made them uncomfortable with socratic criticism."

 -Stephen T. Asma

Swipe Left?

It's time to get your head out of the clouds and your legs in the air!  This consequently is the motto of 90% of the men on dating sites.

Single by choice

"How would you like to live under my skirt?"  

Things we think but never say or act upon is as vast as the space above us.

You're My Team

There's an old saying: "Those who speak, don't know; and those who know, don't speak."

I don't know if that's true or not, but I know that by and large the gossip mongers doesn't care who really knows what as long as they've got a quote.  Even if it's not a direct quote.  Just something they can make seem important and makes it look like they're in the know. 

For those that I've worked with on a variety of issues to the teams I've played on, I tell each of them the same thing.  There is a huge importance on being a cohesive unit, and not speaking ill of those on our team.  Should issues arise, we speak to one another not outsiders. 

We're a group.  We're a team.  From the CEO and captains to team leads on through, we're a team...We win together, we lose together, we celebrate and we mourn together.  And defeats are softened and victories sweetened because we did them together...And if you don't like this team... then, there's the door...

It's great to be in the know.  It's great to have the scoop, to have the skinny, to be able to share inside information with another, or to vent when you have a frustration.  However should you take that information to be cruel or just to say, "I know something you don't know about so and so..." leaving the gossip mongers to become your fans and you sell out the team... You create an environment of mistrust and prejudice, and it'll be embarrassing to me and embarrassing to the team.  It will place stress upon the person you've gossiped about, and it will piss me off.  I won't huff and puff.  I won't take anyone's head off.  I simply say this: you're my guys.  And I'm yours... and there's nothing I wouldn't do for you, so do not let me down.

No Dating November

No boyfriend November was a total success.  I think I shall attempt to skillfully navigate don't date December, just me January, fabulously living alone February, no man March, and all alone April!

Words we never say

We never say "I love You." any more,why should we when we both know it.

We never say "I miss you." any more,why should we when we both know it.

We never say "I thank you." any more,why should we when we both know it.

We never say "I miss Your touch." any more,why should we when we both know it.

We never say "Hold me, I need your arms around me." any more, why should we when we both know it.

Well I am going to say the words we never say any more.

"I love you, I miss you, I thank you, I miss your touch, hold me I need your arms around me."

We need more people that will says these words to each other.